Sunday, November 26, 2017

Happy Thanksgiving 2017


Turkey Hats are the "In" Thing

There is a lot to be thankful for this year!  Lisa has a new job, Sam is doing great in school and enjoying life, the boys are generally sweet and doing well, and I returned home from a successful deployment.

This year we celebrate that life is good in our little corner of the world.  We had a wonderful Thanksgiving with Betty and Bobby in a day of excess food, wine, and fun. 

We started the meal the day before by brining the turkey - a 15lb monster - in the fridge. I also made an apple pie - of which only Betty and I ate.

We started off the chilly holiday with an informal 5k called the Gobble Hobble - a race to raise food collections for the local animal shelters.  Our friends Rob and Lisa, from the Tuna Run, were there as well.  We all started out together but TJ eventually pulled away from the pack.  TJ was getting into a good 9:00 pace at the end when he broke out into a sprint to the finish line in FIRST place! I love that boy but he lacks a real competitive spirit and he played off the victory like it was no big deal. Lisa and Grant participated too but Grant was not into running.  They may or may not have finished last. 

We had a big breakfast of eggs and bacon, bacon being TJs favorite food lately.  

Lisa took the lead on cooking the turkey around 11:00am as we headed to Betty's house for a lunch of shrimp, cheese, sausage and crackers.  We filled up just enough to tide us over until dinner.  

We missed the Macy's Parade but did catch some of the Lions vs. Vikings game.  Then Betty handed me a DVD that had home videos from 2007, when TJ was first learning to walk until 2013, when Grant was a cute little toddler.  It was fun seeing those little memories on the screen.

The turkey was cooked sooner than we expected and we headed to the house.  There was so much food; Brussel sprouts, green beans, stuffing, rolls, and enough turkey to last us for a week.  

The holiday was a nice one. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday.  There are times I wish I belonged to a bigger family with more siblings, nieces and nephews, and friends.  A day with football games, arguments, laughter, and old stories being retold with more embellishment from the year before. However, I am grateful for all that I have and I look forward to the rest of the holiday season. 









Monday, November 13, 2017

Veterans Day 2017


What follows is my speech from the 2017 Veterans Day Ceremony at Bent Winds Gold Course in Fuquay Varina, NC...  
It’s November 11th and you know what that means – that’s right, time to put up Christmas decorations.  My wife has all the outside lights pulled out of storage and ready to go. 
Ladies and gentlemen – I want to thank Michael Dorman, Military Missions In Action, the Miss North Carolina Association, Bent Winds Golf Course, the volunteers, sponsors and all of the Veterans here in the audience.  Thank you for inviting me to speak to you today on what my children refer to as “Dad’s holiday”. 
I had a set of comments for this occasion but CSM Retired Ziebarth stopped me and reminded me that you are all about to play golf all day and that I should be brief, be brilliant, and be gone.  Then my wife, Lisa got a hold of me and said I should talk about recent veteran’s issues.  So with that in mind I am prepared to disappoint both of you - here I go.
The world is a dangerous place.  North Korea continues to develop weapons of mass destruction, Violent Extremist Organizations spew hate and violence, Russian aggression seeks to disrupt the order in Europe, and China continues to refine its anti-access, area denial capabilities. 
Yet despite these real and contemporary issues there are three dangers in the military have been constant for far longer than that – a Private with a rifle, a Lieutenant with a map, and a full bird Colonel with a podium and a microphone. 

This is 100th anniversary of the America’s entry in The Great War. A century ago the United States tectonically shifted from a strong regional power with the ability to influence its national priorities around the Caribbean and Pacific to an emerging global power with a place on the world stage.

Think about that - for the first time Americans were going onto another’s sovereign soil at the desperate need of its allies to end the stalemate of the Western Front.  A fight where American existence was not at stake but her allies was.  1917 to 1918 only scratched the surface of America’s industrial and technological might – which of course – awoke like that infamous “sleeping giant” a quarter of a century later and secured our dominance to this day. 

The Greatest Generation fought back tyranny over two major powers and brought the Empire of Japan and Nazi Germany to heel. 

American’s then found itself in Korea – the Forgotten War – a place where the drumbeats of war are getting louder to this day.

A generation after World War II, America fought in the jungles of Vietnam for ten years – with 56,000 lost and untold forever scarred. 

And now this generation – what I refer to as the Greater Generation – a generation of Soldiers, Sailors, Marines, and Airmen who have deployed to combat two, three, six times or more over the last 16 years. 

The American military is the greatest military on the face of the earth – the most powerful, the most educated, the most capable force since Alexander. Today it is built on a significant concept.  We are an all-volunteer military.  This is truly incredible when you think about it.  Since 1973 – and highlighted by the FACT that we have been engaged in military-combat operations since 2001 – America has met its security obligations with people who WANT to serve.  And even though there is less than 1% of the American population serving in the military that still account for over 2.4 million VOLUNTEERS in uniform today.  Among those who comprise our force are the men and women of all components of the military, Active Duty, Reserve, and National Guard. 

They are worthy of our praise, they are worthy of our continued support after their service is over, and they are worthy of recognition as vanguard of peace – because, in the words of George Orwell - People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf. To all of those Veterans we say loudly – THANK YOU.

American Soldiers, Sailors, Marines, and the Air Force provide us security 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  But we cannot do it without support.  We need organizations like Military Missions In Action - dedicated to assisting veterans, current members of the armed forces and their families by engaging with the community, businesses, and other organizations.  Organizations like MMIA – great or small - are the link for a lot of veterans to connect with one another and back into their communities.  It is because of the generosity of people like you all here today that allows organizations to give back and say “thank you” to veterans and their families. 

And I know full well what that looks like – as a Soldier who was deployed this year, Michael Dorman contacted me to send care packages to my team of 13 in Kuwait, Jordan and Qatar.  And boy oh boy did he follow through.  When I went to the mail room they said, “hey, Sir – you’re gonna need a truck” and I said, “you mean like a hand truck?” “No, like a cargo truck” because MMIA send two HUGE boxes for every member of my team.  Each one filled with snacks, toiletries, movies, cards, and a lot of gratitude.  No doubt that was in part due to people like you all here today.  Support organizations like MMIA really do matter in the lives of the armed forces, and so it is my turn to say thank you.  

In closing let me add this:

100 years ago Men sacrificed in the trenches of France – praying for relief from the mud and the shells

75 years ago Men sacrificed on the beaches in the Pacific – trying to pry a suicidal enemy out of the volcanic rock in order to get closer to the home island of Japan

65 years ago Men sacrificed on the frozen hilltops of Korea – fighting frostbite as hard as they fought Korean and regular Chinese forces

50 years ago Women sacrificed in the triage centers and hospitals in Vietnam – providing care, compassion, and comfort to the dying and wounded

And

For the past 16 years, Men and Women have sacrificed in Afghanistan and Iraq – stomping out radical violent extremism in America’s longest running war

Every generation has sacrificed its best for our peace and security – today we thank all of those – past and present who have put on the uniform, raised their right hand, and defended this great nation.

Thank you for coming out today.  Have a great event!











Wednesday, November 01, 2017

Halloween 2017

Another Halloween in South Lakes is in the books.  Another year in the cul de sac watching our kids grow up - no longer pushing Grant in a stroller, or having to walk with TJ, holding hands, up to the party.

We live in a neighborhood with a great bunch of people who make the evening fun with food and drink until it is time to go door to door.  

This year Grant was "Black Panther" - because he liked the costume.  Two years ago he was Captain Phasma - a character from Star Wars that is female - so we know Grant isn't stuck up on gender or race issues.

TJ was a Ghoul, with a black shawl type thing and a death mask.  The cute and fun part of Halloween is leaving him in favor of scary and shock worthy. 

Our house was visited by hundreds!  We decorated the outside in a witches theme, with cool lighting inside and out but without any too frightening.  Halloween decorations have become an informal contest in the neighborhood and I can no longer keep up with some of the elaborate set ups.  

The good news is that Lisa and I are discussing going to Walt Disney World next year for "Mickey's Not-So-Scary Halloween Party" - a really cool special event at the Magic Kingdom.  The park gets decorated and there are special hours for Trick-or-Treating.  Our family is already in discussions on what to dress up as!