Sunday, November 25, 2018

Lazy Sunday Afternoon

Our Thanksgiving and Friendsgiving Weekend is coming to a close.

We enjoyed a quiet Thanksgiving - if quiet means running a 5k for charity, making a turkey dinner for five, and going to the movie theater to catch the latest Disney release.

I have had some free time to catch up on some projects that I have wanted to do for some time.  I painted the garage to make it look a little neater than drywall and spackling marks.  For $30 I got a couple of gallons of primer and sealer and made the walls a solid white.  I bought three state flags, one for each state we are from; Ohio for Lisa, New York for Sam, TJ, and me, and North Carolina for Grant. Plus, a US flag for all of us.  I also remounted some of the other posters, artwork, and family-centric things like the Key West Mile Marker 0 sign and Lisa's sunset oil painting. The finished look of the garage is nicer.

This holiday was funny in that Samantha played a great prank on me.  The college aged demographic have been texting their parents asking for advice on how long to microwave a 20-25lb turkey.  The joke works because parents think their kids are actually uninformed enough (read: dumb) to try it.  My responses to Sam consisted of, "No. No, no, no, no," and then "Call me."  Other responses - posted on the internet - were much funnier.  But I thought she was serious for a while there.

Thursday morning we went to the park to meet some friends for an annual - and informal - 5k run around the local Kohl's to raise food and funds for local animal shelters.  Everyone brings a bag of dog food or other charitable item.  It's a great way to do something good while having fellowship and little work out to make room for the dinner.  We all ran, even Lucie, and then celebrated with mimosas after the run with our friends Lisa, Rob, and Ian.  We wore our turkey hats and bundled up for the sub-40* weather.  

Samantha went to New York to be with hers mom's family. Betty traveled to Missouri to be with Linda and her daughter.  We couldn't find anyone else to invite for dinner!  However, Bobby joined us at the house for a "small" dinner of turkey breast, broccoli, rolls, and stuffing.  I taught TJ some of the finer points of carving the bird with an electric carver but he was sort of freaked out by the speed of the blades.  Yes, we failed to make gravy. Oops.  No, there were no mashed potatoes.  Not oops.  However, Lisa did a phenomenal job in the kitchen and made a chocolate pie with a homemade crust that was yummy.  No one went hungry!

We cleaned up, packed up, and headed to the movies for, "Ralph Breaks the Internet," the follow up to "Wreck It Ralph."  It was a fun movie that highlights the ubiquitous of the internet in our lives and the importance of friendships; growing up doesn't mean growing apart, even when you're apart.

On the topic of friendships we had a party on Saturday with our friends.  The first ever Brown's Friendsgiving.  Lisa - again in the kitchen - did a great job of getting everything ready for the party.  She baked cookies, prepped the hors d'evours, and replaced all of the batteries in the electric candles...and then forgot to turn them on for the party <snicker>.

The three hour party lasted four hours but only broke up once Rob had won the second round of Cards Against Humanity.  

Maybe we have started a new annual event.

This year, again, we have a lot to be thankful for.

  

Now it is Sunday - the party is cleaned up, Samantha is back from NY, the kids are playing outside.  It is a rare moment for me to sit and enjoy the quiet of a Sunday afternoon without creating chores for myself.  There is a fresh pot of coffee brewing - the aroma is filling the kitchen.  

There is a peacefulness to be thankful for in that too.

As Told By Grant


This is a story that Grant wants to have posted in the blog:

A few weeks ago, TJ wanted some milk.  He went into the refrigerator to look for some milk.  He picked out a carton and poured it in a cup.

He took a big sip. He immediately scrunched up his face and spit the milk into the sink.  He looked at the milk carton and saw that it was buttermilk!  He was totally grossed out.  

I laughed at him and I still think that it is funny.

Sunday, November 18, 2018

UNC

UNC is an intense school.


I'm swamped with work all the time, I've really struggled this semester to get ahead on work like I was able to before I came here. I'm really enjoying it though.


Social stratification is probably my favorite class. My professor, Ted Mouw, is awesome. He gets really excited about certain topics and really rallies the class to discussion. We all typically agree on most things, but sometimes I pull out really different views than the class. I'm going to write my final paper in that class on the concept of the American Dream and how it deludes and arguably pacifies the population to believe escape from social class through work is an attainable dream. I may also analyze the historical effect of the relative newness of our county and how it very recently provided massive economic expansion, and that the American Dream may be a relic of a time passed when a market and land vacuum existed with very little governmental regulation that allowed people to more easily grab wealth. I'm also really interested in the adverse effect of present market/demand vacuums on industries. For example, technological advancements further some American Dreams and hinder others.



Anyway, UNC is good. ROTC is good. My friends are awesome. I'm excited to go back to Ithaca for thanksgiving.


Here's a picture of me from this weekend.

Saturday, November 10, 2018

26.2 fun facts about our NYC Marathon Weekend



  1. Weekends away as husband and wife are always fun! But this one was one for the YOLO (You Only Live Once) record books. How cool that Rich got to run the NYC marathon and that BOTH of us were treated to a once-in-a-lifetime experience for this world-famous race.  


2.     The only time you get denied with “super credentials” is when you try to walk into the trailer that is serving as the back stage for the podium – even in uniform. How awesome to be able to walk up to the starting line of the NYC marathon with no one questioning your intent? Seriously, having these credentials really gave us a behind the scenes perspective on how a large event is executed and how many people it takes to make it happen. Impressive to say the least. We were honored to be so up close to everything. 

3.     The Navy Lodge is the BEST place to stay on race day, but is mostly reserved for the NYC Marathon Start Crew.

4.     Approximately 1,700 port-a-potties are brought in for the start of the race. And they are all locked until the day of the marathon. I wonder whose job it is to go around and unlock them all? Can you imagine if that person forgot their zip-tie cutter?

5.     People in uniform really do stand out in a crowd. I had a taste of being conspicuous as Rich and I rode in a golf cart around the “Race village” at the start. A sea of runners and then a man in uniform, much easier to find than Waldo.

6.     Major Norden is an intense guy.  Every team needs a MAJ Norden.  He’s the guy who takes his job as serious as a heart attack and makes sure that everyone around him rises to his level instead of him backing down to theirs.  We realized all of this right around the time he told us about placing snipers on the roof tops.

7.     Elite athletes stress about the last-minute pee, just like you and me! And yes, Rich got to pee in the same port-a-potties they used.

8.     Tiki Barber is shorter and smaller in person. While at the VIP tent, Rich and I were able to meet several famous people and known runners. One of the highlights was meeting Tiki Barber. This is Tiki’s 5th marathon and is doing it for charity. I enjoyed listening to him talk about he came about his particular cause. No surprise, there is a personal element behind it all.

9.     Rich can transition from Colonel to Runner in just about 5 minutes flat. No joke. I am so impressed with his ability to strip out of his uniform and be race ready right there on the Verrazano Narrows Bridge. I’d want a little more personal space and time to get dressed for a marathon.

10.  Expect the howitzer to be LOUD! You can’t help but jump when that gun goes off.

11.  The Verrazano Bridge is a beautiful way to start the race. People run on both levels of the bridge, but only the people on the upper level have the best view.  To the north is a great view of the New York City skyline.  To the south, at eye level, is a NYPD helicopter just hovering about 100’ away.

12.  The weather makes a difference.  Sunday, November 4th, was a perfect day sandwiched between two rainy, windy, chilly days.  The race day weather was about 54 degrees with a light wind and no clouds.  It was a perfect fall day.

13.  New Yorkers really represent.  It was estimated that over one million people lined the streets from 92nd Street in Brooklyn to Columbus Circle at Central Park in Manhattan.  Every borough was packed with people offering high-fives, signs of encouragement, water, food, and lots of spirit.  If ever there is an event where NYC gets to show its very best, this marathon is it.

14.  Always anticipate that Rich will run faster than his predicted time and he will NOT slow down when you need him to the most. Damn him. I tried to meet him at mile 18. I really thought I had it for a moment, there. But he was faster than his predicted time and I ended up missing him by 2 minutes. I hate that I put so much effort into getting to mile 18 only to end up missing him. I really wanted to see him then. Check to see how he was doing. To celebrate with him. My decision to go to mile 18 cost me the opportunity to be at the finish line. No really, the actual finish line by the TVs and the red tape the winners run through. I wish it would have worked out. Being at the finish would have been the ultimate way to wrap up the experience. Instead, I was frustrated that I did not see Rich nor did I get to enjoy the spirit of the race.

15.  The marathon course is very, very flat.  This means that when you run across a bridge, from the approach to the brigade to the apex/zenith feels like you are climbing Mt. Everest.  …and the downhill doesn’t feel any better!

16.  No matter how good you execute your plan, you need to be able to think on your feet. I hate that I missed Rich at mile 18. I really had a good plan and knew exactly how to get to where I needed to be. But, it did not happen. I should have thought through a plan B, because once I realized that I missed Rich I felt a bit lost; unsure what to do next.   So I walked about 10 blocks trying to figure it out. It was wasted time. I eventually did get back on the subway at a different location to get to the finish, but after that I could not shake that feeling of being defeated.

17.  The best time of day to take the Staten Island Ferry is at sunset. The golden hour never disappoints.

18.  On your mark – leave your mark. Rich Brown left his mark at Central Park (and on the Staten Island Ferry). I knew Rich did not feel well after the race. He just had this look about him. What I did not expect was that he would throw up not once but TWICE after the race. The first was at a discreet location right outside of the VIP tents by the famous Tavern on the Green. He puked in the bushes. But the second time was a little more public: as we were boarding the iconic Staten Island Ferry. Thankfully, Rich found a corner where the staff kept their mop and dust pans. He had almost perfect aim.

19.  Don’t start a conversation with every Uber driver you meet.  Most drivers did not want to talk.  The Crazy Albanian? He liked to talk.  About trees.  Trees that smile.  Smiling trees. And a bunch of other craziness that we were forced to listen to. 

20.  This ain’t Disney World.  Yes, I ran the Dopey Challenge in January – 48.6 miles over four days – but that run was easy because I stopped a lot to take pictures.  In fact, I think my time was about 5h30m-ish.  People ran in costumes. Lot of people started up conversations with strangers to make the time go by.  The whole event was very light.  Not this time.  We didn’t see a single costume or tutu.  No one talked.  Everyone was seriously running and running seriously.

21.  The advice, “Do Not Try Anything New On Race Day,” is really good advice.  The aforementioned #7 was the result of trying a new nourishment gel that I had never used before.  I “gelled” four times during the race, twice with a product I never used before.  The results were left in Central Park and on the Staten Island Ferry.

22.  The NYC Road Runners put on a great show. The details to put on this race are mind boggling. But the NYCRR has got it down to a science. Fast to set up, fast to clean up. And great volunteers and race officials everywhere in between. It was a rare event to peak behind the curtain and fascinating to see.

23.  This was the LOUDEST event I ever participated in.  From the howitzers, to the helicopter fly over, to the masses of people cheering us on, to the choirs outside the churches, to the bands playing outside bars, the NYC Marathon was incredibly loud.  In some neighborhoods the buildings were really close together which made the noise even louder.  It drowned out my RunKeeper pacing app but carried me through to the finish line.

24.  “The Wall” is real.  We put this here because right around mile twenty-four I hit the point in the race where my body just wanted to quit.  My quadriceps balled up.  I was reduced to walking a few steps before the voice in my head said, “If you stop now, you’ll never start up again.” I pushed myself beyond the limit of my endurance. While that sounds kind of silly, it is also true.  I was at the end of my reserves and ran on sheer will to the finish line.

25.  Please be careful of the subway stairs after the race and use the elevator and escalators if given the choice!

26.  It is easy to spot the runners in the airport after the race.  Even without any running gear on, it is easy to spot the hobbling, slow-motion, slow-to-get-up people in the Newark Liberty Airport and make a safe assumption that they ran the previous day and are not suffering from arthritis.  The people in the airport must know this too because a nice woman approached us and said that United Airlines would engrave my medal for free right there on the spot! 

.2  It is good to have someone who loves you at the finish line.  Period.